Over the past few weeks the theme of being attached to outcomes continues to surface. Many of us go into conversations with a map in our head of how we expect a certain conversation to go. My father used to tell me all the time that he would prepare for every meeting by thinking through in his head all the possible things that can happen so he can be prepared. It made sense to me in the past, but many times when you have preconceived ideas of where a conversation will lead we